I may not agree with everything my friends, family, or anybody else does but I don't judge. God says all sin is equal so I have no right to judge. It also says to not be a hypocrite and to look at yourself before you look at someone else. I try so hard not to judge and I succeed on it most of the time. But I am a hypocrite sometimes. Things pop in my head and then the next thing I am realizing is that I am being hypocritical and sometimes judgmental. I ask my friends to call me on it because that is the best way to prevent yourself from doing it again but you can't stop being judgmental or hypocritical but you can not do it as much. The best way to survive this is to have your friends call you on it. I would say family too but when they call me on it they are  being hypocritical but it is different with friends. I can't say, "hey, mom your more judgmental than I am." So friends are your best bet. Good Luck and I hope yall can survive something I have been struggling with my whole life and still are struggling with.