Feeling like you don't belong, is normal in my book. I have felt like the third wheel with my family, friends, and life in general. I am the person always just tagging along, or invited because my brother or sister were and they said you can bring him too. Sometimes it sucks. Me always feeling like a third wheel made me a loner. I enjoy it sometimes but the bad part about being a loner is that your alone. I would rather be alone then hang out with a bunch of idiots who don't know me. Everybody tells you to go out and live life, just talk to people, open up, what could be the worst thing that would happen. The worst thing would be when you ask out a girl, she laughs, says never in a million years, or my fav are you serious. Sometimes the worst things happen and I agree with the people who say we should live life and get out more but don't throw us into the world. Let us do it in our own time, at our own speed. If you rush us then you are making more problems then solving. Just back off! I am antisocial and yes that is bad but it is also good. Because I am antisocial I am away from the jerks, idiots, slim balls, sluts, and many more. I don't drink or do drugs because I chose not to. Since I  am antisocial, during high school I did not deal with peer pressure as much because I did not have very many friends. So the next time somebody tells you to venture out, give it a try when you are ready but just remember there is nothing wrong with you for being a loner. Loner's are self thinkers who don't care what other people think and who will succeed in life.