I am scared of living life. Mainly about meeting new people. I know it seems childish but I am afraid that if I get a girl I won't be good at anything. I bet most people are afraid of the same things as me but they won't admite it. What if I am not a good kisser, what if I am not good at second base, what if I am not good at sex and many more. I am a kind hearted person but what girl wants that. They all say they want the good/nice guy but they never choose him. For anybody who reads this don't be me. I have been living my life in "what if" land and not taking chances because I am scared. Don't be me, live your life and I guess practice makes perfect. I am not saying go out and have a lot of sex so you will be good at it. I am saying try to find "The One." Most of the girls or guys we date won't be "The One," but each one is important in shaping the person we will become. So go out and live life don't wonder "what if," because with each passing moment you lose seconds of your life that is already so short.